I have a bit of a funny situation?

Somebody who I am attracted to but who told me no to dating has been reading my online blog. I recently had a very public fight with another woman who also likes him but he has also said no to her too.
She made up lies and accusations and he wrote me a few 'anonymous' comments telling me to stay strong because I am a kinder and better person than her.
I have a stat report connected to my blog so I can tell when he logs on (I can see all of my visitors that log on including the other woman) and I wrote him a reply (on my blog) thanking 'him' for his support but he keeps replying that it is not him but a woman who can relate to what I was going through.
I can see when he swops his Iphone for his Hudl to reply to me so I know when he has left me a message. Why is he so insistent that I should now know who he is?

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